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  • Birthday: Apr 12, 1964
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  • Reply to blog post: "convicted Child Molester" - Moved In Next Door. by MentalHealthRN
    Comment written 3 years ago
    Yup, stay observant and one step ahead of him. I would NOt confront him this will send his anxiety sky high and he may chose your grandson as a target then. These people cannot be fixed so we either kill them or let them live next door to us.
  • Reply to blog post: More On The Child Molester by MentalHealthRN
    Comment written 3 years ago
    It is totally ignorant for someone to say "He/she looks ike a child molester" what the hell do they look like? They ar not all ugly or acne scarred. My mother was molested by the grandpa in her foster family and I know many others who were hert by people you probably know and love because they are good looking and socially acceptable to you in that way.
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    Comment written 3 years ago
    Just wanted to answer your comment--I have been collecting kelly dolls for 9 years!
    here is my home page address if you would like to have my links to see more pics.
    http://hometown.aol.com/lucyiyn/myhomepage/index.html
    When I came across this post I had to ask myself why women must suffer so.
    I became pregnant at 21 and got married (the "right" thing to do) LOL god we were going to raise a little famly and what happened was I married a stranger. Someone I didnt really know and certainly didnt love. I didnt even like the SOB after trying to live with him! He thought "wife" meant "slave" and to make a loooong story short we divorced before my son was 3 and have raised hima s a single parent all along and now he is 19!.
    I love my son and like you I had limited choices and my son has been angry with me for some of them. But we made a choice and we did it with our childs best interest at heart not selfish like my sons father who never spoke to him again after age 6. Who wanted me to get an abortion in the first place, and my dirty little secret, the appointment was made but never kept. i do not know what my life might have been if I would not have had my son and not had to sacrifice my career then and I have been in your painful shoes.
    I hope blogging will help you but know that you will never be able to forget. The hope is to heal by forgiving yourself so you can move on. There is that shame that rears its ugly head and those tapes that play over and over entitled "what if I would have..."
    all this must be recognized and dissposed of. I suggest writing the whole story down from start to finish including all your feelings, the ones that hurt the most--dont forget those--and print it out, just one copy and only for you. take this to a place you can be alone like a favorite spot by a pond or something , read it aloud experiencing the feelings one by one including accepting of your pain, grief, anger, and shame. Give each feeling a name so they are real and no longer an imagined torment, then simply take your story and shred it into tiny little pieces and let them flutter away in the breeze. Include your own forgiveness of any guilt you perceive you may have, and then move on in life. When you have those thoughts again they will be associated with letting go and so you will do this.
    We all have our secrets so do not feel alone and be assured that when it comes to something so painful our humanity makes us one.
  • Reply to blog post: What Room Is Your Computer In? by MentalHealthRN
    Comment written 3 years ago
    I have an old house and the only place teh computer fit was in my son's room! he doesnt mind me invading his space as long as he isnt trying to sleep! I just step over the dirty laundry and make myself at home in a big old stinky desk chair. The desk faces the window so i can gaze out into the backyard in between blogs and email LOL hmmmm it is sunny out gee maybe I should go OUTSIDE but then that means I have to leave the computer for awhile {{{{jitter}}}}
    ~Susan fellow RN
  • Reply to blog post: Mental Health And You by MentalHealthRN
    Comment written 3 years ago
    I am shocked how frank you are! I would never be so specific about the institution I work for (lots of people have been fired for blogging about their place of employment),but its true the allmighty buck is #1 in healthcare but we as employees of this system need to be paid as well as the docs etc. I dont mean to argue the point but when I feel dissgusted I remember my own place and try to do what I can as an individual which helps ease that sense of helplessness brought on by working for a huge corperation of any kind. I also feel this way when I think about our government and political leaders!! But that b*tch session is for another time eh? LOL I thought I would visit your site since you visited mine fellow RN. I have lots of new pics up too. I enjoyed your photos and still am pondering how you can be 50?! God I thought I had a baby face!!

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